When I encounter people who are impaired, I often see a cloud form around
them. After observing them, it gradually becomes obvious that this person
can't see clearly. It’s not that their sight is weakened. They could have
near perfect pilot's vision, but something has occurred to make their life go
out of focus for them. It's as if a static takes shape around their bodies.
This static gets thicker as it reflects their level of stress or dysfunction.
It quickly becomes a translucent cloud. Then it all starts to make sense.
It's like they're driving at night in thick fog. They have no idea
where they are, and they can't see any of the landmarks to bring things back
into perspective. They are lost inside their bodies.
This is not to say that these people shouldn't be held accountable for their
actions. Nor am I saying that nothing is their fault. They're still driving
that body. However, it should be kept in mind that they just can't make out
what direction they're pointed in, or where a safe place to stop would be.
But then this can get confusing, as there are different kinds of impairments.
Sometimes it's pretty clear that that person knows about the cloud.
They seem to understand that something is off, and they aren't driving
straight. Often, this makes things worse. They might attempt to
communicate to the world that they don't understand, but they do it erratically
and lose control. They slip and fall repeatedly. This creates pain, and the
cloud feeds on pain. It gets bigger. The impairment grows. These poor
people just can't get out of the storm, but they know it's there so they keep trying.
Sometimes the only thing to do for these people is to grab hold of an anchor,
tie yourself off, and jump right in with them. You have to experience
their haze in order to help them. You need to take their hand, and let them
know you're with them. Then, slowly but surely, the two of you can climb
out together.
In other cases, the person can't see the problem. This is problematic, because
their clouds tend to be the biggest and darkest, but they have no idea.
These clouds take over their entire world, but these people go on as if they
hadn't. They just continue moving about the fog aimlessly. They think they're
headed one way, but they've been off course for some time.
These individuals pose the biggest threat. They'll veer off track and head
right for you without noticing. What's worse is there seems to be no way to
show them that it's time to slow down and pull over.
Just came across your blog... Started writing myself a while ago and laughed when I saw your blog's title since it is so similar to my own. It just seemed "right."
ReplyDeleteSo your insights are interesting. I look forward to reading more.
Well thanks for stopping by! I appreciate the readership, and the compliment.
ReplyDeleteGreat name by the way.